I was recently looking for something "mostly harmless" for my children to watch on netflix, when this caught my eye. Now, I grew up with very limited TV viewing, so even if this show (or the reruns, more likely) were on, I don't think I ever got to see it. And all I knew about it as an adult was the occasional scathing feminist criticism of June Cleaver, with her beautifully pressed dress, beauty-parlor hair, and immaculate housekeeping - and no apparent ambition to do anything other than what she is doing.
As a wife and mother myself, who has recently started enjoying this show, I have this to say: the humor is gentle. The parents love each other, and love their children. The children like each other, and are kind to each other. When they aren't, it isn't the cue for a laugh, it's the problem to be resolved in the episode. Does June Cleaver set an unrealistic standard for women? Certainly no more so than shows which portray women working outside the home, raising children, and maintaining the same standards of beauty and organization that June Cleaver appears to spend her day on - with less outside help than she evidently hires. It's an idyllic picture of childhood and growing up in America; I don't know if it's anything more than that - or if it was ever meant to be. But as pictures - necessarily limited in their scope - go, it a pleasant one.
As a wife and mother myself, who has recently started enjoying this show, I have this to say: the humor is gentle. The parents love each other, and love their children. The children like each other, and are kind to each other. When they aren't, it isn't the cue for a laugh, it's the problem to be resolved in the episode. Does June Cleaver set an unrealistic standard for women? Certainly no more so than shows which portray women working outside the home, raising children, and maintaining the same standards of beauty and organization that June Cleaver appears to spend her day on - with less outside help than she evidently hires. It's an idyllic picture of childhood and growing up in America; I don't know if it's anything more than that - or if it was ever meant to be. But as pictures - necessarily limited in their scope - go, it a pleasant one.
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